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Wednesday, April 27, 2011

I just faked it and you'll never know...

*Insert female orgasm noises here.*
 When it comes to faking it, women can fake everything from a smile, a friendship and even an orgasm. Do we want to fake the big “O” absolutely not; we want to get off every time just as you do. However, that just isn’t always the case.  So how can you tell if a woman is faking it?
I’ve read that if a woman jumps up out of bed right away for any reason she probably didn’t have an orgasm. She would need some time to recompose. Her cheeks should be flushed , eyes relaxed, heavy breathing ,  lower moans verses the porn high pitch squeals, unusual or unplanned facial expressions and contracting vagina muscles.
I hate to tell you this but all of those things can be faked. Most women can contract their vaginas on demand and during sex that naturally happens. After any kind of physical activity our breathing changes and our cheeks can get a little flushed. I can change the tone of my voice at any point. My facial expressions are never the same in day to day life.  The truth is there is no real way to tell if the woman you’re with is faking it. Let’s not forget the classic scene in When Harry Met Sally; she fakes the big “O” right in the diner. “I’ll have what she’s having.”
So all I can do is tell you that shake what your momma gave you and communicate. If you’re not enjoying it voice it. Let the man know what he’s doing wrong or what he should be doing and where. Men if you’re not sure whether she’s satisfied or not, don’t ask… it’s really annoying because honestly I feel like you’re just trying to stroke your own ego.
Here’s the cold hard fact. Just be good at what you do and you won’t have to worry about it.
“The G-spot does exist.  Go the distance and find it!”

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