For whatever reason it is, many women get into relationships and give the man false hope of an ever present sex life. Then sparks fade the woman's tired, she has a headache blah blah fucking blah. I will never understand woman getting into a monogamous relationship only to stop having sex with their man. First off how do you NOT have sex when its available to you at all times...
Does this give him the right to cheat on you not at all but I sure as hell see why he does. Why be in a relationship if you're not having sex? Do you understand how unhealthy that is?If you're not sexually attracted to them anymore then don't be with them, and if you are start showing it! I know women who don't even have sex with their men weekly let alone daily. I'm not a nympho, I'm normal when I'm with someone I want to have sex with them, I enjoy it, it feels good. Its a sign of affection and a great way to end any day! So when sex stops so does all the things you ladies complain that you miss from your man. He doesn't do this and he doesn't do that... well have you fucked him lately????
What you obviously don't understand is that if you take sex away from your man one of two things will happen: he's either going to cheat on you and find it elsewhere or he's going to quit giving a fuck and not doing shit for you either. Now flip the situation around you have sex nightly and he will be nicer to you and do more things for you why? Because he doesn't want to lose that! He doesn't want you to take that away. You have the power ladies you're just going about it the wrong way. With holding sex is just as bad for you as it is on him.... you're making him do things or not do things that piss you off but what the fuck have you done for him lately?
It is true that if you don't use it you lose it. Women's sex drive diminishes greatly in relationships the longer they go without having it. While the more you have it the more you want it. The better it becomes and the better you feel.
I've researched this actually and there is a website that lists all the reasons you should have sex if you're not going on pure enjoyment alone and I'd like to share them with you so that maybe ladies you'll think about stopping the excuses and keeping your man on his toes while he makes you curl yours! These benefits are not only for your and your man's health but your sanity and happiness as well. But I still don't understand why anyone really needs a "reason" to have sex...
Reasons to have sex regularly (FACTS):
*Reduces the risk of heart attack by 50%
*Reduces strokes in men
*30 minute romp alone can burn more than 200 calories that beats the treadmill
*Stops your bitchy mood and irritability (and yes you definitely need that)
*Boosts your immune system by 30%
*Slows the aging process by destressing
*Helps with sleep (I can vouch for that!)
*Improves your senses of taste and smell
*Helps bladder control by toning bladder and pelvic muscles
*Gets rid of menstrual cramps (so throw a towel down and have at it)
*Boosts energy!
*Tightens your ass, belly, thighs and arms (the complete workout)
*Improves flexibility
*Boosts self image in woman and confidence both inside the sheets and on the streets
*Relieves headaches!!!!!!! (so throw that excuse out the window ladies shit's a lie)
*Helps reduce your man's risk of prostate cancer
*Increases the amount of time your man will be willing to cuddle with you... (do for him he'll do for you)
*Relieves tension - bad day at work fuck-fest a must!
*Improves your natural creativity and fantasy
So you see Ladies you have absolutely no excuse to say "no" to sex if you're in a relationship. I am not condoning whoring yourself out but if you chose to do so, more power to you. Sex is healthy and promotes a healthy life. So get with the program ladies and hop up on your man or some other woman will!
"Masturbation is sex with someone I love...."
I cannot believe no woman blasted this post!
ReplyDeleteGreat post! I've been single for over a decade and have dated a lot of men since my husband died. Men would tell me all the time how their wives lost interest and in some cases, I could see why (pot bellied, stained shirt, porno-stache). But most were normal looking and sane. My closest married girlfirends will tell me how they no longer like sex, haven't given a bj since the honeymoon and wish their husbands wuld leave them alone. When I was married we had sex several time a week. Its what you do as a married couple. I've heard from more women (and some men friends) that they married because they liked the person but they weren't really attracted to them and thought it would happen over time. Sorry, uh huh. It doesn't. If you're not feeling chemistry with someone, find someone who you like, is kind AND makes your panties wet.
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